One evening as Sammy was leaving, he called out to the guard, "Good night, Domingo, you can lock up and go." "No," Domingo called back, "not everyone has left yet."
"What are you talking about," Sammy said, "everyone left two hours ago!" "It is not so," Domingo said, "One of the shochtim (ritual slaughterers), Rabbi Berkowitz, hasn't left yet."
"But he goes home every day with his colleagues, maybe you just didn't see him," Sammy said.
"Believe me, I am positive he didn't leave yet," the guard insisted. "We better go look for him."
Sammy knew that Domingo was reliable. He decided not to argue, but instead got out of his car and rushed back to the office building with Domingo. They searched the dressing room for Rabbi Berkowitz. He wasn't there.
They ran to where the animals were slaughtered, but he wasn't there either. They searched the truck dock, then the packing house, going from room to room. Finally they came to the huge walk-in freezer where the large slabs of meat were kept frozen. They opened the door and to their shock and horror they saw Rabbi Berkowitz rolling on the floor, trying desperately to keep himself warm. They ran over to him, lifted him off the floor and helped him out of the freezer, past the thick heavy door that had locked behind him. They wrapped blankets around him and made sure he was warm and comfortable.
Sammy Braun was incredulous. "Domingo," he asked, "how did you know Rabbi Berkowitz hadn't left? There are over two hundred workers here every day. Don't tell me you know the comings and goings of every one of them?"
The guard's answer is worth remembering.
"Every morning when that Rabbi comes in, he greets me and says hello. He makes me feel like a person. And every single night when he leaves he tells me, 'Have a pleasant evening.' He never misses a night - and to tell you the truth, I wait for his kind words. Dozens and dozens of workers pass me every day - morning and night, and they don't say a word to me. To them I am a nothing. To him, I am a somebody.
"I knew he came in this morning and I was sure he hadn't left yet, because I was waiting for his friendly good-bye for the evening!"
It was Rabbi Berkowitz's genuine regard for another human being that literally saved his life.
My Reflection:
One of the best things you can do for other people is make yourself easy to remember and the ultimate way to be remembered is exactly like the above story. A simple friendly gesture to a stranger can go change and even save your life. This also raises a great question - what do you want to be remembered for? We don't ask ourselves this question enough, yet it should be a pivotal and motivating factor in our lives. Most if not all of us want to be remembered as good, compassionate and kind people.... yet at the best of times we don't display this behaviour. If you want to be remembered as a person who is friendly and greets people then DO IT everyday. If you want to be remembered as a humble person then be humble everyday. Yes we have our bad days and drop our guard, but it's these days that people will see your character shine and remember you... If you are consistent in your goodness people will truly remember you as a great person.I wish you an awesome week :)
Darren Zwiers
Whether it's eight o'clock in the morning or eight o'clock at night, I always try to greet others before they have a chance to speak to me. - Zig Ziglar
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