Monday, 10 September 2012

The Black Dot

A small town chamber of commerce invited a speaker to address its annual dinner. The community’s economy was bad, people were discouraged, and they wanted this motivational speaker to give them a boost. During her presentation, the speaker took a large piece of white paper and made a small black dot in the centre of it with a marking pen. Then she held the paper up before the group and ask them what they saw. One person quickly replied, “I see a black dot.” “Okay, what else do you see?” Others joined in agreement : “A black dot.” “Don’t you see anything besides the dot?” she asked. A resounding “No” came from the audience. “What about the sheet of paper?” asked the speaker. “I am sure you have all seen it”, she said, “But you have chosen to overlook it.”


My Message


How true this is for our own lives, we tend to overlook and take for granted all the wonderful things around us. Instead we focus our time and energy on the small black dots of failure and misfortunes, when we could be looking at the greater picture of what life has to offer. It's so important for us to look beyond the "black dots". Instead of continually focusing on the problems, you should concentrate on what’s good, this way you are likely to be encouraged and motivated, and you'll automatically start looking for ways to get more of this productive feeling. Agreed It’s easy to dwell on mistakes, regrets and failures but it's your choice to change that right away and to look at the paper beyond the black dot and know that there is more to life than just meets the eye.
May you have an incredibly awesome week!
Darren Zwiers



The Quote:


"The optimist sees the rose and not its thorns; the pessimist stares at the thorns, oblivious to the rose" - Kahlil Gibran


Monday, 3 September 2012

I Would Pick More Daisies

I Would Pick More Daisies


Author: Don Herold (Adapted)
When the late Nadine Stair of Louisville, Kentucky, was 85 years old, she was asked what she would do if she had her life to live over again. "I'd make more mistakes next time," she said. "I'd relax. I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been on this trip. I would take fewer things seriously. I would take more chances. I would climb more mountains and swim more rivers. I would eat more ice cream and less beans. I would perhaps have more actual troubles, but I'd have fewer imaginary ones. "You see, I'm one of those people who live sensibly and sanely hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I've had my moments, and if I had to do it over again, I'd have more of them. In fact, I'd try to have nothing else. Just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day. I've been one of those persons who never goes anywhere without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, and a raincoat. If I had to do it over again, I would travel lighter than I have."If I had my life to live over, I would start barefoot earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall. I would go to more dances. I would ride more merry-go-rounds and I would pick more daisies." 



My Message



Leave everything for tomorrow, forget about doing the things you love now and you will soon live to regret it. In the above story, there were many things that Nadine would change if she could live her life over, but for us its not to too late. Rather than looking back in regret, let's look ahead and envision what the rest of our lives would be like if we continue with a positive and enthusiastic outlook on life. Whatever thought or action serves you well, take action on it now. Whatever thought or action serves you poorly, change it immediately. If we do this we may be able to look back at the age of 85 or 95 or 105 and say: If I had my life to live over again, I'd do it exactly the same way. The time to live is now, the time to love is now and there is no better moment than right now. 

May you have an incredibly awesome week!
Darren Zwiers




The Quote:


"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today". James Dean